06 March 2013

On a Train Ride to Melbourne

This past year I've really grown to enjoy the art of slow travel--so much that I decided to stay in one city for six months and that I chose an 11 hour train ride to get to Melbourne over a one hour flight at the same price. I love to travel by train; to see the changing landscapes and watch the scenery pass me by as I gaze out the large windows. Maybe I just enjoy it so much because it's a mode of transportation that I don't get to use back home, or simply because I appreciate the old-fashioned romance of it all. Besides, you're able to see the beauty of the land and all the small details you miss when you're flying thousands of feet above the clouds.

I think my friends thought I was nuts for taking the train. As I packed my backpack in their apartment, sorting my few belongings into piles--one for keeps and one for leaving behind, I joked that I would probably have to sit next to an old, smelly man for the entire journey. When I boarded the train that bleak morning at Platform 1 in Central Station, I was exhausted. Staying up late with nerves and packing until the morning hours (my usual habit before big trips), left me with only two hours of sleep. I threw my bags onto Seat 61 of Carriage D. One of the staff members for CountryLink approached me in his uniform and said, "Where are you going today?" / "Melbourne," I replied. / "Didn't you hear? It's been canceled. This train's not going to Melbourne." / "You're joking," I smiled. / He shook his head. "You should have gotten an email. There's a bus that's leaving, but not until this afternoon." / Very confused, I look down at my printed booking confirmation. "So is it a night bus, then?" But he was already walking away, laughing his head off.

I got comfortable in my seat, very happy to have the one next to me vacant. The four seats ahead of me were occupied by an adorable albeit loud French family of five. The two seats across the aisle from me were taken by an Asian couple, who were both wearing the exact same blue plaid shirt and eating hot buns for breakfast. The extra seat gave me room to stretch out, write in my journal and sleep. I finally read the card that my friends gave me the night before at my last BBQ with them. Naturally, I cried my eyes out and then I fell asleep again.
As the train got closer to the Victoria state border, it came to a halt at a rundown station in a small town. I woke up to the movement in the carriage. A man limped onto the car and placed his bag in the compartment above my head. I sat up and shuffled about, scooping up my things and putting them back in my own area. He sat down next to me and said "G'day." He absolutely reeked of cigarettes. I laughed to myself. I guess I get to sit next to an old, smelly man after all.

He attempted small talk with me, though I could scarcely understand what he was saying. His accent was thick and he used a lot of jargon. I wasn't really in the mood to chat to him, or anyone for that matter. But the attendants who worked on the train all seemed to know him well, calling him by his first name and asking him how he was. This piqued my curiosity. "Are you a Sydney or a Melbourne person?" he asked. / I had long heard about the Sydney-Melbourne rivalry. "I've never been to Melbourne before," I replied. / "Oh, are you going to visit family there?" / "No, I'm American. Just here visiting."

Once he found out I was from Texas, our conversation became a lot easier. He talked about his love for Western films and fishing. He wanted to know how long it would take to drive from Texas to California. "A good two days with a stop in between," I guessed. / "Fair dinkum!" He couldn't believe America was that big. It was the first time I had ever heard someone use that stereotypical Aussie expression.

I noticed his skin was tanned and leathery with freckles, probably from thousands of days spent laboring in the sun. His hands, however, looked too clean, too soft to belong to a tradie. We came to another stop in another nondescript town. He pointed out the window, "I painted that rail station. I've painted loads just like it." So he was a painter. He told me that he was involved in a really bad car accident nearly a year ago. He spent almost two months in the hospital recovering from severe injuries including seven fractured bones in his spine. He now travels to physical therapy sessions every week via train. That's how all the ladies on staff knew him. His injuries prevent him from painting and being outdoors. He now works in paint sales, but hopes to be able to return to his trade and passion soon. He finally introduced himself as Robby, and he explained to me how his surname has American roots which date back to ancestors from Scotland.

Robby painted a picture for me of Australia in the days of his boyhood. He described the old English-style school uniforms and how they've changed over the years; how teachers gave out ruler lashes to anyone who acted out in class. He told a tale of how he and two of his mates "wagoned school," (or played hooky) one time and got caught. When they heard the siren of the police car, his two friends swam across the river. The cops shouted to the boys to come back or they'd shoot, and then they fired two warning shots into the air. Robby said, "You never saw two blokes swim across that current quicker. They got over in just 10 strokes." He talked of the bygone days of train travel, when the "Red Rattler" trains still existed. The seats in the train were replaced by benches. Instead of a buffet car, there was a saloon. And the passengers smoked, drank and gambled all the way to their destination.

I only got to spend about an hour talking to Robby, before he reached his destination. I shook his hand and smiled, remembering that first impressions aren't always right. He was a true blue Aussie bloke, and his stories opened my eyes to a different side of Australia. I'm so glad he sat down in Seat 62 that day.

05 March 2013

Wanderlust

For the last couple of months my mind has been wandering to an island far away. My thoughts are filled with visions of Bali and its tropical climate, spicy food, palm trees, warm blue waters, ancient Hindu temples and friendly people. Though I've never been there before, I can see it vividly in my daydreams and I have a feeling in my heart that it's where I need to be right now. My wanderlust is so strong that it outweighs my fear of being on my own again, leaving a city and friends I love behind, and going with little money to support me. My desire to get to Asia is so strong that I'm willing to take two flights and an 11 hour train journey to get there. This week I'll travel by train from Sydney to Melbourne, followed by a flight to Perth and then another flight to Bali. It's a convoluted way of getting there, but it's the cheapest way I could work out. Plus, it allows me to see a couple more places in Australia before I leave.


Just the mere thought of Bali fills me up with insurmountable joy. I'm ready for something new, something different--a culture that's completely unlike my own. I want to feel challenged--to get out of my comfort zone, to cope with culture shock, to learn a new language. I'll be in Indonesia for one month, and I'm hoping my time there will restore my spirit & give me a sense of direction and focus in my life. I can't wait to share my experience with you.

03 March 2013

So Long Sydney

When I came to Australia, staying in Sydney for six months was not a part of my plan. But the city captivated my heart & I couldn't leave, even after my apartment lease was up. I am constantly impressed with it's diversity and natural beauty-- the nearby mountains, the hip beaches, and the fact that the entire city area is surrounded by water. The livelihood of Sydneysiders is strongly linked to the sea--surfing, diving, swimming, spending nice arvos on the beach, or taking the ferry to work every morning. In so many ways, Sydney is a perfect fit for me.

But it's now time for me to wave goodbye to this beautiful city I love. Autumn is quickly approaching with grey skies and cooler weather. It's time for me to do what I do best and follow the sun. Sydney has truly become my home away from home and I feel as if I'm leaving a big piece of my heart behind. I can't even begin to comprehend how much I will miss this place and the cold turquoise waters I spent countless days swimming, snorkeling and diving in; the weekly beach barbecues; the late nights out in Kings Cross; the outdoor cinema in the park; the weird and fascinating animals; the festivals; the 3 am dips in the sea.  But more than anything else, I'll miss my friends who I met here. They have colored the pages of this chapter in my book and have made my experience here amazing, ridiculous, full of laughter and unforgettable.

I still remember my first week in Sydney and the day I walked along the beach on my own, passing groups of people enjoying the outdoors together. Whether lying on the beach, throwing a frisbee around, drinking a few ciders or flipping steaks on the barbie, everyone seemed to take advantage of sunny days, time off and quality time with their mates. I remember longing for that sense of belonging--wishing for a close group of friends that I could spend my days here with.

It's my last day in Sydney, and if there's one thing I'm certain of, it's that I've found a great group of friends here. And even though the weather was less than ideal for my last weekend, we've made the most of it. Saturday was spent celebrating at the Sydney Mardi Gras Parade, covered head-to-toe in glitter and paper heart confetti. And this evening we had a barbecue on the beach. After sunset, I walked along the shore with Victoria, my first friend I made in Australia and the person I first visited Coogee Beach with. We wrote our wishes for the future in the sand and watched the waves carry them out to sea. It was the perfect ending to my Sydney adventure. I know I'll be back one day, and I like to think a small part of me will always be a Sydneysider. Until next time, so long Sydney!